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20 Romantic Christmas Date Ideas

5 Dec

1. See Christmas lights together.

2. Go ice skating.

3. Make a Christmas wreath together.

4. Bake cookies together- a great way to goof off and have fun while sharing sweetness and romance.

5. Go to a Christmas market together.

6. Take a walk in the beautiful winter nights.

7. Have fun in the snow- make snow angels and snowmen.

8. Volunteer together.

9. Turn off the lights and dance together to Romantic Christmas Music.

10. Go to a Christmas festival.

11. Go window shopping together.

12. Put Christmas lights somewhere unexpected- inside or outside to create a little romantic area to enjoy together.

13. Pick out a Christmas tree together.

14. See a show together! There’s a lot playing during the holiday season.

15. Go on a sleigh ride.

16. Build a gingerbread house together.

17. Decorate the Christmas tree. Once finished sit together in the room and watch the lights twinkle.

18. Make snow angels.

19. Visit a bed and breakfast together- romantic, cozy, and full of Christmas.

20. Stay home, cuddle up with hot chocolate, eggnog, or wine and a good romantic Christmas movie.

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32 Ways To Get Your Ex Back

29 Nov

I will not go into the steps of deciding if it’s right for you and your ex to be reunited or the reasons for breaking up. I will not go into whether it’s right or wrong for you, them, or both to be back in a relationship. There are other blogs and articles to help with that. This blog is intended to be positive, a pick-me-upper, and full of hope. This is for when you have hope and love and a strong belief that you two belong together and will be happier together.

1. If they broke up with you, think of why. Find the mistakes that were made and correct them.

2. If you’ve changed (for the better and in a way you want to change) in a way you know they wanted- don’t tell them, show them. They have no reason to believe you if they don’t see it.

3. Remember what made them fall in love with you in the first place. Show them that you’re still that wonderful, amazing person they wanted to be with so much.

4. Tell yourself that you need to be strong. This is hard and it won’t get any easier. It’s ok, you can handle it.

5. Bring up pleasant memories- how much fun you two had together.

6. If you did something wrong, say you’re sorry.

7. Inside jokes go a very, very, very long way- they’re as powerful as memories while adding a little humor- laughing makes people feel good and remember good times.

8. Don’t retaliate in any way, shape, or form.

9. Figure out the situation- is it better to let them right now that you want them back (you broke up with them or they broke up with you, but give a lot of signals showing they do want to be with you,) or if you should be casual and rebuild the friendship first (they’re very hurt over the breakup, they felt things were going too fast, ect.) Most people recommend cutting off all contact for a while. Most of the time that is the best idea. However, occasionally, when you know there’s a good chance they want you back- let them know right away before they enter a rebound relationship. If you let them know and they say ‘no’ then cut off contact for a while to recover and give them a chance to miss you.

10. If they did something wrong you’ll have to let go. Don’t demand or even expect a sorry. If you need it and they never say it, you’ll just get hurt.

11. Do things that make you feel good. Someone who feels good is more attractive than someone who is always sad.

12. Plan an activity together that could be casual, but has potential to lead to more- have lunch, coffee, hike, mini-golf, bowling, ect.

13. Don’t get clingy. No constant texts or calls or messages. It’s overwhelming.

14. Do something exciting together- excitement is stimulating, bonding, and generates good memories- try rock climbing, hiking, horseback riding, football games, river rafting, ect.

15. Tell them that you’ve been thinking about them.

16. Remember the things they loved- things you said to them, things you did together, things you did to them- and use that to your advantage- but not too much at once, begin slowly.

17. Make sure you listen to them a lot- their life, problems, joys, views on the breakup, ect.It builds the friendship.

18. Try little bits of romance- start very small with a text or a note or a flower. If they receive it well you can build up more.

19. Do not contact them when drunk.

20. Be busy. Do things with your friends, family, coworkers, or by yourself! It shows how you don’t need them and play hard to get- people tend to pursue what they can’t have.

21. Always be kind. Don’t make passive-agressive statments or bring up nasty bits of the past. If you want to be with them- you have to let that go.

22. Do not ever beg. It makes you feel bad and it doesn’t look much better to them. If you need to, politely ask to have a conversation in a public place so they can explain themselves further, but don’t push anything at that point.

23. Small ammounts of physical contact is helpful- brus their hand when walking close, just for a second. Move a piece of hair from their eye or off their shirt. Little touches go a long way.

24. Don’t try to make them jealous. If they don’t get jealous it’ll hurt your feelings. If they do get jealous it will hurt theirs. You may end up in a jealousy war- not fun.

25. Don’t give ultimatums. They’re not good for relationships- ever.

26. It’s always a good idea to find ways to improve yourself all the time. It’s especially good after a break up to help keep you moving forward.

27. Be supportive of them- it feels good and they know that you’re always in their corner- no matter what. It lets them trust you.

28. Continue talking to other people. It’s ok to even flirt a bit- you’re single right now and flirting gives you confidence. (It’s even better when the flirting is with your ex.)

29. Do not enter another relationship or sleep with other people.

30. Don’t say too much behind their back. They need to know that they can still trust you with their secrets even when things are rough. Still speak highly of them to friends and family- so they’ll be more supportive with the reunion.

31. Enjoy your time apart. Sometimes that’s why things ended. Enjoying yourself is important and not only will make you more appealing, but will help the relationship in the future.

32. If you were together for a very long time or married before you broke up then seek couples’ counsling.

Good luck!

23 Great Romantic Gifts For Her

26 Nov

Inexpensive:

A Romance novel- a good way to reignite passion, romance, and have a little fun. Check out 6 Good Kindle Romance Novels– only 99 cents!

Home-made chocolates- very romantic and from your heart- she’ll love it!

Make your own at-home spa basket for her- soaps, bubble bath, bath salts, facial masks, and a coupon for a massage with oil.

Write a beautiful poem or letter- something heart-felt and meaningful.

Write her a song- play it for her on the piano, guitar, sing, anything- it’ll melt her heart.

Flowers! They’re gorgeous and smell good. Plus you can send a message with them- See What Flowers Mean

Box of chocolates- it’s a classic for a reason.

Get a bunch of candles and light them around the room for a gorgeous ambiance and enjoy a delicious chocolate fondue pot together.

Breakfast in bed.

Make a scrapbook of your most romantic moments together.

Medium:

Spa day- a wonderful way to relax.

Rent a carriage or sleigh ride to enjoy together.

Something inscribed.

Buy her dinner a her favorite restaurant.

Go ahead and get that expensive bottle of champagne, wine, or scotch she’s always wanted to enjoy with you and open it together.

Treat her to buy any dress of her choice and take her out to show if off!

Search online for the most romantic hotels in the area- bed and breakfast, there are even some not-so-expensive castles you can stay in some areas! Stay there for a weekend together.

Get her tickets to a show- musical, band, ballet, whatever she’s loves.

Book a romantic sunset cruise in your area.

Special:

Diamonds are forever. Nothing shows how your love sparkles like a pretty necklace, earrings, or rings.

Go crazy on the flowers- rather than 1 bouquet fill a room!

A trip to somewhere she’s always wanted to go- all inclusive in Mexico, romance in Europe, ect.

Find out her favorite purse brand and get her the expensive purse she always wanted.

16 Ways To Make Thanksgiving Romantic

19 Nov

1. Write down all the reasons that you’re thankful that you’re together and everything you love about your partner.

2. Remember to treat it as a date. You’re having a romantic meal together.

3. Have dinner with candles and all the romantic trimmings as well as food.

4. It’s a long weekend! Celebrate Thanksgiving at a little bed and breakfast.

5. Put on your warm clothes and watch a Thanksgiving parade together.

6. Play romantic music as you eat together.

7. Feed each other.

8. Go to a wine tasting together to pick out the perfect wine to have on the table with the turkey.

9. Cook together- cooking together can be so romantic- her giving him a taste of the cranberry sauce, him standing behind her as she glazes the turkey. It’s a great way to get to know each other more and have fun together.

10. Go on a romantic autumn walk together after dinner.

11. Guys- surprise her by bringing gorgeous flowers or a centerpiece for the table!

12. In the evening bundle up together under a blanket or in front of the fireplace eating pie.

13. Take a drive. Admire the sunset on the autumn leaves.

14. If he insists on watching football, cuddle close and feed him his snacks. Maybe kiss or nibble at him during a lull in the game.

15. Dress up for the dinner together- dress, suit, tux even!

16. After dinner you’ll feel lethargic- take advantage of that by having a hot, relaxing bath together or massages! 

15 Love Texts/SMS

19 Nov

1. It hurts when you have someone in your heart, but you can’t have them in your arms

2. one of the best feelings in the world is when you hug the person you love and they hug you tighter ❤

3. Great minds contain ideas, solutions and reasons; scientific minds contain formula, theories and figures; my mind contains only you!

4. You’re as sweet as bailey as strong as tequila as warm as cognac as exotic as malibu as heady as a cocktail & as special as as a champagne. I am simply drunk on U

5. I wanted to send you something that would make you smile, but the mail man told me to get out of the mailbox.

6. I am lucky to have met and spent quality time with a girl as beautiful as you,
You are living proof that angels do exist and are never obscure from ones view.

7. If you ever asked me how many times you’ve crossed my mind, I would say once. Because you came, and never left.

8. I went to bed smiling cause I knew I would dream about you but I woke up smiling cause I knew you weren’t a dream.

9. I don’t want to be your ‘favorite’, or your ‘best’, I want to be your only and forget the rest.

10. When you love someone, it’s something. When someone loves you, it’s another thing. When you love the person who loves you back, it’s everything.

11. Sometimes we let affection,go unspoken. Sometimes we let our love go unexpressed. Sometimes we can’t find words to tell our feelings. Especially towards those we love the best

12. So there’s this girl. She’s beautiful, funny, has a great personality, and guess what? She’s reading this right now.

13. My love for you is a journey, starting at forever and ending at never

14. There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.

15. i will hold you in my heart until i can hold you in my arms again.

Fall in Love! 14 Romantic Fall Dates

7 Nov

1. Go to a corn or hay maze- it’s fun and exciting.

2.Make apple cider and sip it together in front of a fire.

3. Go to a football game together- girls, you’ll get bonus points and there’s something fun about cuddling together to stay warm while cheering for your favorite team.

4. Get some romantic fall photos together! Get ideas Here and Here!

5.Pick your own apples or pumpkins at a local farm.

6.Ride on a hayride or train to enjoy the scenery!

7. Go on a walk or bike ride together! It’s beautiful and romantic.

8. Play with the leaves! Throw some leaves up in the air or push each other into piles of leaves! Nothing will make you feel more like a kid again.

9. Go to a haunted house or corn maze together and scare yourselves silly.

10. Visit a farmer’s market together- cool, crisp air and good food!

11. See some of the local festivals. Since it’s harvest time, there’s a lot going on in the fall.

12. Enjoy a pick nick together under the autumn leaves.

13. Make dinner over a fire and enjoy it together.

14. Go wine tasting or stay home by the fire, curled up under a blanket together with a spiced wine or make your own spiced wine together!

10 Romantic Halloween Drinks

29 Oct

1. Brain Hemorrhage- very beautiful drink to enjoy together

Ingredients:
1 oz Peach Schnapps
1 tsp Bailey’s Irish Cream
2 drops Grenadine

Directions:
Pour the Peach Schnapps into a large shot glass.Slowly add the Bailey’s and top with the grenadine.

2. Spiced wine- Witch’s Brew is available now- spicy, sweet, and perfect for a romantic evening with your witch or warlock.


3. Candy Corn Shots

Ingredients

Directions:
Carefully layer on top of each other to resemble the halloween candy. First the Licor 43, then the orangecuracao, then finally the cream.

4. True Blood

Ingredients

  • 1 ½ oz Botran rum
  • ¾ oz Chambord
  • ½ oz simple syrup
  • ¾ oz fresh lime juice
  • 5 mint leaves
  • Ginger beer

Instructions

Add all the ingredients (except Ginger Beer) into a mixing glass. Add ice and shake for ten seconds. Strain into a highball glass. Top with ginger beer.

5. Fulton’s Harvest Pumpkin Pie- pumpkiny, spicy, creamy, and romantic.

6. Cherry Chainsaw Massacre

Ingredients:
1 part UV Cherry
2 parts tonic water

Directions:
Shake with ice and strain into a martini glass

7. Poison Apple

Ingredients:

  • 2 parts Jägermeister
  • 2 parts Sour Apple Pucker
  • 1 part Cranberry Juice

Directions:

Pour all three ingredients together in a shaker over ice. Shake well, strain into a rocks or shot glass, and serve ice cold.
8. Spooky Screwdriver
Ingredients:
2 oz. Blavod black vodka, very cold
3 oz. Pulp-free orange juice
Directions:
1. Fill a small cocktail glass with ice.2. Pour  pulp-free orange juice over the ice.

3. Gently layer black vodka over juice. Serve

9. The Headless Horseman

Ingredients:
2 oz black vodka
3 dashes bitters
Ginger ale

Directions:
Pour the vodka and bitters into a Collins glass. Fill the glass with ice, then pour in ginger ale.
Garnish with a slice of blood orange.
10. Black Widow

Ingredients:
2 oz. Blavod black vodka, very cold

3 oz. Chilled cranberry juice

Directions:

1. Fill a small cocktail glass with ice.

2. Pour cranberry juice over the ice.

3. Gently layer black vodka over juice. Serve

12 Romantic Halloween Couple Costumes

25 Oct

13 Spooky Romantic Date Ideas

20 Oct

Some romantic Halloween date ideas.

1. Carve pumpkins together. Then curl up on the couch together and drink hot apple cider in the jack-o-lantern candlelight.

2. Dress up together as a romantic couple! It’ll give you an excuse to act all lovey-dovey all night.

3. Feed each other Halloween candy like they were grapes.

4. Have a vampire movie marathon. Vampires are by far the sexiest monsters out there. Huddle close during the scary parts.

5. Find a masquerade party and go together. Nothing is more romantic and alluring than a room full of masked people. To make it even more fun, act like you’re meeting for the first time.

6. Take a tour of haunted houses or mansions in the area.

7. Find out if there are haunted carriage or hay rides in the area and go on one together.

8. Go to a haunted corn maze together and get lost together.

9. Cook a spooky meal and eat it by candlelight.

10. Have a pick nick in the cemetery.

11. Go to a murder mystery dinner show together.

12. Go to a Halloween fair or festival together.

13. Have a Halloween photo shoot in your romantic matching costumes.

15 Romantic Halloween Costumes

17 Oct

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