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Our Love Like A Diamond

27 May

Our Love Like A Diamond

By  Terri Mooney
A New Day Before Us
The Old far Behind
Let us Look Forward with Newness
As we turn and Find
The hidden treasures found in True Love
Uncover, Unbury, Unwind
Discover the Mysteries of One Another
For we are each, One of a Kind!

True Love is found as a Treasure
Not on the surface as some simple stone
But by a Master hand, carved and chiseled
As a Diamond formed, not on its own
By reflection and contemplation, beauty brought out with such skill
Producing such joy and elation, our True Love only to Fulfill!

What a life we will have
As we give it our All
To fulfill only your Need
Our relation never to Fall!

A New Day Before Us
The Old far Behind
Let us Look Forward with Newness
Our Love Continually Refined

Best Ways To Wake Up Your Lover

4 May

Most people hate getting up in the morning. A great way to make your lover feel better is to make their morning and day better is by waking them up in a romantic, loving way. Here’s some ideas!

1. The fairytale way– with a kiss!

2. Make them breakfast in bed.

3. Playfully tickle them with a feather.

4. Cuddle closer and tell them how much you love them.

5. Sneakily put some jewelry on her that you know she’s been wanting for a while.

6. Whisper a Romantic Something in their ear.

7. Send them a romantic text.

8. Give her a single rose.

9. Spray one of their favorite scents around them so they wake up with a beautiful smell.

10. Gently brush their hair aside and stare deeply into their eyes.

11. Put a romantic Poem or quote on their pillow.

12. Wake them up with your song.

13. Nibble their ear.

14. Give them a massage.

15. Slip a romantic gift into the bed with them.

16. Surround the bed with roses or other Flowers!

17. Close the blinds and light the candles, making it like last night really never ended.

18. Pick her up and carry her into the kitchen for a romantic breakfast.

19. Decorate the room to make it romantically.

20. Caress them or blow in their ear.

21. Wake them up to see the sunrise together and enjoy the romance.

Happy Valentine’s Day

14 Feb

Romantic Poem:

If Only You Knew

In the darkness of the night, there is only me and you,
We are woven together in our very own cocoon.

I feel your heartbeat against my chest,
I hold you tight as we both rest.

I start to drift off to sleep,
And think of how I turned complete.

I am only complete when you are near,
To lose you someday is my biggest fear.

It takes two halves to make a whole,
My heart and yours we make one soul.

– Rahik Thamir –

Romantic Photo:

Romantic couples photography asks, "May I have this dance?"

Romantic Date: Make snow angels together. Warm up with some hot chocolate afterwards and cuddle with a movie.

Romantic Valentine’s Day Card:

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Romantic Gift: A couples’ massage.

Romantic Video:

Romantic Quote: A kiss makes the heart young again and wipes out the years.  -Rupert Brooke

20 Romantic Christmas Date Ideas

5 Dec

1. See Christmas lights together.

2. Go ice skating.

3. Make a Christmas wreath together.

4. Bake cookies together- a great way to goof off and have fun while sharing sweetness and romance.

5. Go to a Christmas market together.

6. Take a walk in the beautiful winter nights.

7. Have fun in the snow- make snow angels and snowmen.

8. Volunteer together.

9. Turn off the lights and dance together to Romantic Christmas Music.

10. Go to a Christmas festival.

11. Go window shopping together.

12. Put Christmas lights somewhere unexpected- inside or outside to create a little romantic area to enjoy together.

13. Pick out a Christmas tree together.

14. See a show together! There’s a lot playing during the holiday season.

15. Go on a sleigh ride.

16. Build a gingerbread house together.

17. Decorate the Christmas tree. Once finished sit together in the room and watch the lights twinkle.

18. Make snow angels.

19. Visit a bed and breakfast together- romantic, cozy, and full of Christmas.

20. Stay home, cuddle up with hot chocolate, eggnog, or wine and a good romantic Christmas movie.

32 Ways To Get Your Ex Back

29 Nov

I will not go into the steps of deciding if it’s right for you and your ex to be reunited or the reasons for breaking up. I will not go into whether it’s right or wrong for you, them, or both to be back in a relationship. There are other blogs and articles to help with that. This blog is intended to be positive, a pick-me-upper, and full of hope. This is for when you have hope and love and a strong belief that you two belong together and will be happier together.

1. If they broke up with you, think of why. Find the mistakes that were made and correct them.

2. If you’ve changed (for the better and in a way you want to change) in a way you know they wanted- don’t tell them, show them. They have no reason to believe you if they don’t see it.

3. Remember what made them fall in love with you in the first place. Show them that you’re still that wonderful, amazing person they wanted to be with so much.

4. Tell yourself that you need to be strong. This is hard and it won’t get any easier. It’s ok, you can handle it.

5. Bring up pleasant memories- how much fun you two had together.

6. If you did something wrong, say you’re sorry.

7. Inside jokes go a very, very, very long way- they’re as powerful as memories while adding a little humor- laughing makes people feel good and remember good times.

8. Don’t retaliate in any way, shape, or form.

9. Figure out the situation- is it better to let them right now that you want them back (you broke up with them or they broke up with you, but give a lot of signals showing they do want to be with you,) or if you should be casual and rebuild the friendship first (they’re very hurt over the breakup, they felt things were going too fast, ect.) Most people recommend cutting off all contact for a while. Most of the time that is the best idea. However, occasionally, when you know there’s a good chance they want you back- let them know right away before they enter a rebound relationship. If you let them know and they say ‘no’ then cut off contact for a while to recover and give them a chance to miss you.

10. If they did something wrong you’ll have to let go. Don’t demand or even expect a sorry. If you need it and they never say it, you’ll just get hurt.

11. Do things that make you feel good. Someone who feels good is more attractive than someone who is always sad.

12. Plan an activity together that could be casual, but has potential to lead to more- have lunch, coffee, hike, mini-golf, bowling, ect.

13. Don’t get clingy. No constant texts or calls or messages. It’s overwhelming.

14. Do something exciting together- excitement is stimulating, bonding, and generates good memories- try rock climbing, hiking, horseback riding, football games, river rafting, ect.

15. Tell them that you’ve been thinking about them.

16. Remember the things they loved- things you said to them, things you did together, things you did to them- and use that to your advantage- but not too much at once, begin slowly.

17. Make sure you listen to them a lot- their life, problems, joys, views on the breakup, ect.It builds the friendship.

18. Try little bits of romance- start very small with a text or a note or a flower. If they receive it well you can build up more.

19. Do not contact them when drunk.

20. Be busy. Do things with your friends, family, coworkers, or by yourself! It shows how you don’t need them and play hard to get- people tend to pursue what they can’t have.

21. Always be kind. Don’t make passive-agressive statments or bring up nasty bits of the past. If you want to be with them- you have to let that go.

22. Do not ever beg. It makes you feel bad and it doesn’t look much better to them. If you need to, politely ask to have a conversation in a public place so they can explain themselves further, but don’t push anything at that point.

23. Small ammounts of physical contact is helpful- brus their hand when walking close, just for a second. Move a piece of hair from their eye or off their shirt. Little touches go a long way.

24. Don’t try to make them jealous. If they don’t get jealous it’ll hurt your feelings. If they do get jealous it will hurt theirs. You may end up in a jealousy war- not fun.

25. Don’t give ultimatums. They’re not good for relationships- ever.

26. It’s always a good idea to find ways to improve yourself all the time. It’s especially good after a break up to help keep you moving forward.

27. Be supportive of them- it feels good and they know that you’re always in their corner- no matter what. It lets them trust you.

28. Continue talking to other people. It’s ok to even flirt a bit- you’re single right now and flirting gives you confidence. (It’s even better when the flirting is with your ex.)

29. Do not enter another relationship or sleep with other people.

30. Don’t say too much behind their back. They need to know that they can still trust you with their secrets even when things are rough. Still speak highly of them to friends and family- so they’ll be more supportive with the reunion.

31. Enjoy your time apart. Sometimes that’s why things ended. Enjoying yourself is important and not only will make you more appealing, but will help the relationship in the future.

32. If you were together for a very long time or married before you broke up then seek couples’ counsling.

Good luck!

23 Great Romantic Gifts For Her

26 Nov

Inexpensive:

A Romance novel- a good way to reignite passion, romance, and have a little fun. Check out 6 Good Kindle Romance Novels– only 99 cents!

Home-made chocolates- very romantic and from your heart- she’ll love it!

Make your own at-home spa basket for her- soaps, bubble bath, bath salts, facial masks, and a coupon for a massage with oil.

Write a beautiful poem or letter- something heart-felt and meaningful.

Write her a song- play it for her on the piano, guitar, sing, anything- it’ll melt her heart.

Flowers! They’re gorgeous and smell good. Plus you can send a message with them- See What Flowers Mean

Box of chocolates- it’s a classic for a reason.

Get a bunch of candles and light them around the room for a gorgeous ambiance and enjoy a delicious chocolate fondue pot together.

Breakfast in bed.

Make a scrapbook of your most romantic moments together.

Medium:

Spa day- a wonderful way to relax.

Rent a carriage or sleigh ride to enjoy together.

Something inscribed.

Buy her dinner a her favorite restaurant.

Go ahead and get that expensive bottle of champagne, wine, or scotch she’s always wanted to enjoy with you and open it together.

Treat her to buy any dress of her choice and take her out to show if off!

Search online for the most romantic hotels in the area- bed and breakfast, there are even some not-so-expensive castles you can stay in some areas! Stay there for a weekend together.

Get her tickets to a show- musical, band, ballet, whatever she’s loves.

Book a romantic sunset cruise in your area.

Special:

Diamonds are forever. Nothing shows how your love sparkles like a pretty necklace, earrings, or rings.

Go crazy on the flowers- rather than 1 bouquet fill a room!

A trip to somewhere she’s always wanted to go- all inclusive in Mexico, romance in Europe, ect.

Find out her favorite purse brand and get her the expensive purse she always wanted.

20 Romantic Movie Quotes (Part 2 of 3)

20 Sep

You stay alive, no matter what occurs! I will find you. No matter how long it takes, no matter how far, I will find you.
The Last of the Mohicans

I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.
Lord of the Rings

I’m crazy about you. I’ve always been crazy about you. I’m always gonna be crazy about you.
Intersection

Soul mates. It’s extremely rare, but it exists. It’s sort of like twin souls tuned into each other.
What Dreams May Come

You make me want to be a better man
As Good as it Gets

I thought we would meet only in death.
Slumdog Millionaire

If, however, your feelings have changed, I will have to tell you: you have bewitched me, body and soul, and I love I love I love you. I never wish to be parted from you from this day on.
Pride and Prejudice

If there’s any kind of magic in this world, it must be in the attempt of understanding someone, sharing something. I know, it’s almost impossible to succeed, but…who cares, really? The answer must be in the attempt.
Before Sunrise

It’s only in the mysterious equations of love that any logical reasons can be found. I am only here tonight because of you. You are all I am. You are all my reasons.
A Beautiful Mind

Building burn, and people die…. but real love lasts forever
The Crow

When you love someone, and you love them with your heart, it never disappears. When you’re apart, and when you love someone, and you’ve done all you can do, you set them free. And if that love was true… when you love someone, it will all come back to you.
Forget Paris

I’m very discreet but… I will haunt your dreams.
40-Year-Old Virgin

Make of our hands one hand. Make of our hearts one heart. Make of our vows one last vow. Only death will part us now.
West-Side Story

It only takes a moment to see true beauty.
When in Rome

The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.
Moulin Rouge

…I think I’d miss you even if we’d never met
The Wedding Date

I should have told her everyday because she’s perfect everyday.
Love Actually

Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being “in love” which any of us can convince ourselves we are.
Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.
Captain Corelli’s Mandolin

I love you. You… you complete me.
Jerry Maguire

A life without love is no life at all
Ever After
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You Are My Dream Come True

17 Sep

Always in my heart
You make me feel more loved
Than I’ve ever felt
And happier than I’ve ever dreamed.
The love and understanding you have
Is something I have searched for
My entire life.

Always in my happiest
And saddest moments,
You are my best friend and confidante.
I come to you for everything,
And you listen to me
Without judgment.

Always, deep within my soul,
I know we have a love like no other.
What we share is something others
Only hope for and dream of,
But few ever experience.
Our love is magical beyond belief.

Always, without hesitation,
You give of yourself completely.
You have reached the very depths of my soul,
Bringing out emotions I never knew I had
And unveiling an ability to love
I never thought possible.

Always and forever
You will be my dream come true,
The one I have waited for all these years.
From now until the end of time,
I will love only you.
We will be together always.

Cheryl Ann

12 Things To Do To Get Your Lover’s Attention

16 Sep

Feel like your lover is watching the TV or computer more than you? Want to get their attention? Here’s some ideas!

1. Try out a new scent- or a scent associated with an especially spicy memory.

2. Dress up for no good reason and meet them at the door when they come home from work.

3. Have sweet and tender little nick names for each other.

4. Spontaneously start a game- whether it is tag or Monopoly.

5. Get a new haircut.

6. Play a romantic song- dance with them!

7. Lock eyes with your lover and tell them how deeply you love them.

8. Lean in and whisper what you’d like to do with them the next time you get them in the bedroom.

9. Thank them for something you’ve never thanked them for before.

10. Make a list of everything you love about them and give it to them.

11. Send them a romantic SMS.

12. Give them a romantic poem or quote.

18 Romantic Movie Quotes (Part 1 of 3)

15 Sep

I’m scared of walking out of this room and never feeling the rest of my whole life the way I feel when I’m with you
Dirty Dancing

It’s like seeing someone for the first time, and you look at each other for a few seconds, and there’s this kind of recognition like you both know something. Next moment the person’s gone, and it’s too late to do anything about it.
Out of Sight

Sometimes, the only way to catch an uncatchable woman is to offer her a wedding ring.
Big Fish

I may not be a smart man, but I know what love is.
Forrest Gump

I always thought that there was this one perfect person for everybody in the world, you know, and when you found that person the rest of the world kind of magically faded away, and, you know, the two of you would just be inside this kind of protective bubble, but there is no bubble, I mean if there is you have to make it, I just think life is more than a series of moments, you know, we can make choices, and we can choose to protect the people we love, and that’s what makes us who we are and those are the real memories.
Forces of Nature

There are millions of people in this world, but in the end it all comes down to one. I still panic sometimes, forget to breathe, but I know that there’s something beautiful in my imperfections; the beauty that he held up for me to see. The strength that I will never be able to say.
Crazy Beautiful

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, nor touched, but are felt in the heart.
The English Patient

It’s the scariest day of the year. Yet only one thing scares me, that we might never have met.
Autumn in New York

You will never know love unless you surrender to it.
Fools Rush In

If you love someone you say it, you say it right then, out loud. Otherwise the moment just…passes you by.
My Bestfriend’s Wedding

It seems right now that all I’ve ever done in my life is making my way here to you.
The Bridges of Madison County

It’s amazing, Molly. The love inside… you take it with you.
Ghost

I love you. You’re my only reason to stay alive… if that’s what I am.
New Moon

Say you’ll share with me one love, one lifetime. Lead me, save me from my solitude. Say you want me with you, here beside you. Anywhere you go, let me go, too. Love me, that’s all I ask of you.
Phantom of the Opera

I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss from her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it.
City of Angels

Take love, multiply it by infinity and take it to the depths of forever.. and you still have only a glimpse of how I feel for you.
Meet Joe Black

When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible
When Harry Met Sally

I’d rather fight with you than make love to anyone else.
The Wedding Date
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