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40 Romantic Nick Names For Your Boyfriend/Husband/Fiance/Guy

13 Jun

1. Amazing
2. Baby
3. Babe
4. Beast
5. Big Guy
6. Boo
7. Charming
8. Chief
9. Cowboy
10. Daddy

11. Darling
12. Dashing
13. Dear
14. Dear Heart
15. Good Looking
16. Handsome
17. Heart Throb
18. Hero
19. Hot Stuff
20. Hottie
21. Hubby
22. Hun
23. Hunk
24. Killer
25. Knockout
26. Lover
27. Loverboy
28. Muffin
29. My All
30. My King
31. My Love
32. Prince
33. Romeo
34. Sexy
35. Stud
36. Stud Muffin
37. Superman
38. Sweetie
39. Sweet-heart
40. Tiger

Best Ways To Wake Up Your Lover

4 May

Most people hate getting up in the morning. A great way to make your lover feel better is to make their morning and day better is by waking them up in a romantic, loving way. Here’s some ideas!

1. The fairytale way– with a kiss!

2. Make them breakfast in bed.

3. Playfully tickle them with a feather.

4. Cuddle closer and tell them how much you love them.

5. Sneakily put some jewelry on her that you know she’s been wanting for a while.

6. Whisper a Romantic Something in their ear.

7. Send them a romantic text.

8. Give her a single rose.

9. Spray one of their favorite scents around them so they wake up with a beautiful smell.

10. Gently brush their hair aside and stare deeply into their eyes.

11. Put a romantic Poem or quote on their pillow.

12. Wake them up with your song.

13. Nibble their ear.

14. Give them a massage.

15. Slip a romantic gift into the bed with them.

16. Surround the bed with roses or other Flowers!

17. Close the blinds and light the candles, making it like last night really never ended.

18. Pick her up and carry her into the kitchen for a romantic breakfast.

19. Decorate the room to make it romantically.

20. Caress them or blow in their ear.

21. Wake them up to see the sunrise together and enjoy the romance.

48 Romantic Valentine’s Day Dates

10 Feb

1. Cook a romantic dinner for her. Eat it by candlelight and decked out with roses.

2. Feed each other- especially finger foods.

3. Go horseback riding together.

4. Go to a 50’s diner and have an old-fashioned milk shake together, 1 with 2 straws, of course.

5. Enjoy a romantic pick nick together.

6. Spend all days in your pajamas and cuddle together.

7. Go hiking.

8. Take a walk on a beach.

9. Learn a Foreign Language and seduce each other.

10. So some cute, romantic arts and crafts together.

11. Rent a hotel room together and spend the night.

12. Play outside.

13. Go to a zoo or aquarium.

14. Rent a sleigh or carriage and go on a romantic ride together.

15. Stay in bed all day long.

16. Go star gazing or to an observatory.

17. Serenade her.

18. Decorate the house or balcony with candles and flowers.

19. Recreate your first Valentine’s Day together.

20. Go wine tasting together.

21. Find a romantic Valentine’s Day dance and sweep her off her feet.

22. Get a couples’ massage.

23. Make homemade ice cream to enjoy together.

24. Go to a poetry class.

25. Offer to be their “slave” for a day- get their beers for him, paint her finger nails, whatever they want.

26. Take a boat ride together.

27. Get some of those glow in the dark star stickers and put them all over a room so you can stare at the stars in the warmth of your home.

28. Have a Photo Shoot together.

29. Go to a romantic play, musical, movie (at the theater,) or art show.

30. A night of karaoke.

31. Go to a botanical garden, butterfly house, or aviary.

32. Take her on a shopping spree.

33. Rent something extravagant you could never afford- a dress, a tux, diamond necklace, tiara, or a car.

34. Get them a really nice Gift.

35. Dress up- no matter what you do, whether simple it’s a simple or fancy date, wear your finest. (Or dress way down.)

36. Play truth or dare together.

37. Rent a romantic movie and cuddle up and watch it.

38. Read each other steamy Romance Novels or One Of Your Own.

39. Go to a bed and breakfast.

40. Watch the sunset together.

41. Go on a hot air balloon ride.

42. Find out what Valentine’s day events are going on in your area and go check it out.

43. Make a reservation at her favorite place.

44. Go ice skating together.

45. Go to an amusement park.

46. Take a romantic bath together- bubbles, salts, candles, rose petals, the works.

47. Have your fortunes told.

48. Enjoy a Valentine’s Day cruise together.

19 Ways To Get Him To Ask You Out For Valentine’s Day

4 Feb

1. Get him a nice bar of chocolate. Attach a note asking him to be your Valentine with a place and time for a date. Hand it with a smile.

2. Wear something really cute on Valentine’s Day- especially red, pink, or white. (Red is sensual, pink is innocent, and white is pure.) You’ll feel good and confident enough to ask him out.

3. Have a nice date already picked out so that he doesn’t have to worry about thinking up something for you to do. Make sure he knows the plans.

4. Make your status, “I wonder who will be my Valentine this year…”

5. Get him a Nice Gift.

6. If you’re nervous and want something a little more casual you can invite him to one of those cute little 50’s restaurant for milk shakes. It’s cute, romantic, and perfect for everyone.

7. Smile at him! Make eyes at him. Let him know you like him.

8. If you’re in school (middle to college) do it the old fashioned way- pass him a note! It’s cute.

9. Invite him to go skiing/snowboarding together.

10. Send him a message in candy hearts.

11. Scatter kisses across the floor- attach a note, “Now that I’ve kissed the ground you walk on, will you be my Valentine?”

12. Pull him aside to ask- it’ll be less awkward when you’re not in front of other people.

13. Maybe you’re overlooking someone who has been attracted to you for a long time. Think about who you really want to spend the day with.

14. Help boost your courage by talking with him first- talk about something you know he’s interested in or that he’s doing right then.

15. Sometimes guys don’t even know that you like them- let him know! Gently brush his arm or lightly push him as you laugh when he says something funny.

16. If your school sends flowers to people in class, order one! It’s cute. Everyone appreciates the attention.

17. Have a friend talk you up and talk a lot about how cute you two would be together.

18. Get his attention by asking him for help. Guys love to help women out. (You can even ask him to help by helping you go on a date (or if you want to be really risky, help you find a date for Valentine’s day.))

19. Make sure he knows how much you like the things about him that make him him.

34 Romantic Valentine’s Day Gifts For Her and Valentine’s Gifts For Him

3 Feb

Valentine’s Day Gifts For Girls

1. A Romantic Novel– a fun, romantic gift that will help spice up the romance.

2. Perfume- something she can think of every day.

3. Chocolates- it’s a classic for a reason- delicious and delightful.

4. Teddy Bear- cute and fun.

5. Flowers- find out what Flowers Are Best For Her and what Number Of Roses Mean.

6. A classy necklace or earrings- especially ones with hearts or roses.

7. Scented candles.

8. A nice scarf.

9. A Personalized Romance Novel. (Cute, but not as friendly on the wallet as a pre-made one.) 

10. A Romantic Photo Shoot so she can always remember the good times you’ve had together.

11. A massage or spa day.

12. Bamboo in pretty patterns.

13. Chocolate covered strawberries- just think, you can feed them to each other!

Valentine’s Day Gifts For Guys

14. A nice watch.

15. A nice wallet or leather passport holder.

16. Tickets to his favorite game.

17. Give him a massage.

18. Cool shot glasses.

19. Bake him a patch of brownies. He’ll love the personal touch and the taste!

20. A photo of the two of you that he can put on his desk so that he can think of you all the time!

21. A grill- the gift that keeps on giving.

22. A personalized guitar pick or a mini version of his favorite musical instrument.

23. His favorite video game.

24. Hot sauce of the month club.

25. A bunch of micro brew beers for him to enjoy.

26. A good Swiss army knife.

27. Show up with a box of chocolate covered strawberries- he’ll enjoy you feeding them to him!

28. A flask.

29. A comfortable robe for him to relax in.

30. Cologne- something he’ll remember you by every day.

31. A beer stein.

32. Jerky of the month club.

33. Sports memorabilia.

34. His favorite action movie.

36 Sweet Things To Say To Your Girlfriend On Valentine’s Day

1 Feb

Here are some very sweet things to say to your girlfriend, wife, or fiance on Valentine’s day. Whether you write these romantic messages on a Valentine’s Day card, say them to her, send it in a text or e-mail, she will love it.

1. I will be yours, you will be mine, together we will be one love.

2. You’re the one and only Valentine I’ll love always – Thanks for being totally amazing

3. Love reminds you that nothing else matters.

4. The moment you walk into the room, I become breathless and speechless.

5. You + me = Happiness forever.

6. If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you’ve made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand.

7. When we are apart, I’m only half the man I want to be.

8. If there ever comes a day when we can’t be together keep me in your heart, I’ll stay there forever.

9. You are my queen. You are the jewel in my crown.

10. You’re the one and only Valentine I’ll love always – Thanks for being totally amazing

11. You make me believe in soul mates.

12. I love you, not only for what you are, but for who I am when I am with you.

13. If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.

14. Your heart is the most precious gift a man could ever want.

15. I don’t just love you. I love that I get to have you as my Valentine. Happy Valentine’s Day!

16. I never thought that I’d find someone that makes me feel the way you do. You are the love of my life

17. You are my Juliet.

18. If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you’ve made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand.

19. I love that we found each other

20. Loving you is easy – Happy Valentines day 🙂

21. They say a picture tells 1,000 words but when I look at your picture all I see are 3 words: I … love … you

22. The most beautiful thoughts are the ones I have of you.

23. Anyone can catch your eye, but it takes someone special to catch your heart.

24. Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.

25. If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.

26. I’ve fallen in love many times… always with you.

27. When you smiled you had my undivided attention. When you laughed you had my urge to laugh with you. When you cried you had my urge to hold you. When you said you loved me, you had my heart forever.

28. Be mine. Forever.

29. You must be my guardian angel.

30. If you love someone, put their name in a circle, instead of a heart, because hearts can break, but circles go on forever.

31. Your love ravishes me, it is a power I can not resist.

32. Our love is like a romance movie, but the best part is that it never ends. Happy Valentine’s day!

33. Sometimes we make love with our eyes. Sometimes we make love with our hands. Sometimes we make love with our bodies. Always we make love with our hearts.

34. Every time I look into your beautiful eyes, I melt and fall in love with you again and again and again.

35. Valentines Day is much more fun when I get to spend it with you.

36. Once upon a time, there was a man with no purpose, a man of humble status. And a beautiful ruler came into the land and picked out of the crowd of many suitors a man like me. She took over my heart and commanded my obedience. It is you, my queen! Please my sweet lady, let me be at your command. I want to give you your hearts desire. I want you to rule my kingdom and rock my world at the same time. You are the treasure I look for everyday. You are the most brilliant star in the sky, the only star I want to wish upon. There is only one girl that I have my eyes on, there is only one girl that makes my heart beat the way it does when I’m with you. Make my dreams come true.

Or use one of These Sweet Things To Say

18 Romantic Winter Dates

10 Jan

1. Have a snowball fight together!

2. Take a midnight ski/snowboard trip together- it’s romantic to snowboard/ski under the stars.

3. Spend all day in bed- watch movies together warm under the covers.

4. Cuddle up with hot cocoa or spiced wine in front of the fire.

5. Rent a cabin for the weekend.

6. Go sledding together.

7. Make snowmen of each other!

8. Go ice skating together.

9. Take a walk in a blizzard- enjoy the snowflakes together.

10. See an ice sculpture show together.

11. Go to a movie theater together- find out what movies are playing after you show up.

12. Go to a coffee house together.

13. Have an indoor pick-nick- set out a blanket and your favorite pick-nick foods next to a window to view the snow.

14. Go on a romantic sleigh ride together.

15. Make paper snowflakes.

16. Cook dinner over the fireplace- hot dogs, sausage, bread, cheese, s’mores, ect.

17. Go on a wine tasting together.

18. Find an outdoor hot tub to enjoy- nothing better than staying warm while enjoying the beauty of the cold snow.

A Dozen Things To Do With A Dozen Roses

4 Jan

1. Here are 12 roses for every wonderful month the past year I have loved you.

2. I wanted to give you a rose for your smile- then I remembered your laugh, your eyes, your hugs, your kisses, your personality, our moments together, our hopes, our happiness, our dreams together, our memories, and most of all, our love.

3. There are 12 hours on the clock- on each one I think of you- here are 12 roses to let you know.

4. Give 11 real roses and one fake saying, “I will love you until the last rose fades.”

5. Here are 2 dozen roses- one for every hour I think of you ever day.

6. Be Mine.

7. King Arthur had a dozen knights to protect his kingdom, I wanted to give you a dozen roses to protect your heart.

8. I want to give you 12 roses- one for every month this year I want to love you.

9. I’d be lost without you- here’s 2 dozen roses to remind you of me every hour.

10. A rose for each day of Christmas- marry Christmas!

11. A bouquet of 12 roses dozen’t match your beauty.

12. It takes 12 inches to fill a foot- here are 12 roses to fill your hands.

See 49 Meanings Of Roses for more ideas.

13 Romantic New Year’s Wishes Text/SMS

28 Dec

1. This year has been so amazing and wonderful with you- I’m looking forward to the next year.

2. I can’t wait to kiss you at midnight!

3. I met love, health, peace and joy, They needed a permanent place to stay. I gave them ur address hope they arrived safely. “Happy New Year”

4. My new year’s resolution is to love you even more- it’s hard to imagine, but you make it easy.

5. I wish you a year full of kisses because once I kiss you at midnight I won’t want to stop.

6. If the next year is half as exciting as the last i’ll be the happiest man (woman) alive.

7. Since I can’t see you tonight here’s my kiss for you- XOXOXOXOXO

8. Let’s ring in the new year together.

9. You look so sexi tonight- let’s bring in the new year together.

10. New years is a time to say ‘i love you’ so- i love you!

11. Every kiss with you feels like a new years midnight kiss.

12. New years is a time to start new so I need to say that I like you, will you be mine this new year?

13. I love new years- the excitement, the lights, the kisses- but none nearly as much as I love being with you.

 

32 Ways To Get Your Ex Back

29 Nov

I will not go into the steps of deciding if it’s right for you and your ex to be reunited or the reasons for breaking up. I will not go into whether it’s right or wrong for you, them, or both to be back in a relationship. There are other blogs and articles to help with that. This blog is intended to be positive, a pick-me-upper, and full of hope. This is for when you have hope and love and a strong belief that you two belong together and will be happier together.

1. If they broke up with you, think of why. Find the mistakes that were made and correct them.

2. If you’ve changed (for the better and in a way you want to change) in a way you know they wanted- don’t tell them, show them. They have no reason to believe you if they don’t see it.

3. Remember what made them fall in love with you in the first place. Show them that you’re still that wonderful, amazing person they wanted to be with so much.

4. Tell yourself that you need to be strong. This is hard and it won’t get any easier. It’s ok, you can handle it.

5. Bring up pleasant memories- how much fun you two had together.

6. If you did something wrong, say you’re sorry.

7. Inside jokes go a very, very, very long way- they’re as powerful as memories while adding a little humor- laughing makes people feel good and remember good times.

8. Don’t retaliate in any way, shape, or form.

9. Figure out the situation- is it better to let them right now that you want them back (you broke up with them or they broke up with you, but give a lot of signals showing they do want to be with you,) or if you should be casual and rebuild the friendship first (they’re very hurt over the breakup, they felt things were going too fast, ect.) Most people recommend cutting off all contact for a while. Most of the time that is the best idea. However, occasionally, when you know there’s a good chance they want you back- let them know right away before they enter a rebound relationship. If you let them know and they say ‘no’ then cut off contact for a while to recover and give them a chance to miss you.

10. If they did something wrong you’ll have to let go. Don’t demand or even expect a sorry. If you need it and they never say it, you’ll just get hurt.

11. Do things that make you feel good. Someone who feels good is more attractive than someone who is always sad.

12. Plan an activity together that could be casual, but has potential to lead to more- have lunch, coffee, hike, mini-golf, bowling, ect.

13. Don’t get clingy. No constant texts or calls or messages. It’s overwhelming.

14. Do something exciting together- excitement is stimulating, bonding, and generates good memories- try rock climbing, hiking, horseback riding, football games, river rafting, ect.

15. Tell them that you’ve been thinking about them.

16. Remember the things they loved- things you said to them, things you did together, things you did to them- and use that to your advantage- but not too much at once, begin slowly.

17. Make sure you listen to them a lot- their life, problems, joys, views on the breakup, ect.It builds the friendship.

18. Try little bits of romance- start very small with a text or a note or a flower. If they receive it well you can build up more.

19. Do not contact them when drunk.

20. Be busy. Do things with your friends, family, coworkers, or by yourself! It shows how you don’t need them and play hard to get- people tend to pursue what they can’t have.

21. Always be kind. Don’t make passive-agressive statments or bring up nasty bits of the past. If you want to be with them- you have to let that go.

22. Do not ever beg. It makes you feel bad and it doesn’t look much better to them. If you need to, politely ask to have a conversation in a public place so they can explain themselves further, but don’t push anything at that point.

23. Small ammounts of physical contact is helpful- brus their hand when walking close, just for a second. Move a piece of hair from their eye or off their shirt. Little touches go a long way.

24. Don’t try to make them jealous. If they don’t get jealous it’ll hurt your feelings. If they do get jealous it will hurt theirs. You may end up in a jealousy war- not fun.

25. Don’t give ultimatums. They’re not good for relationships- ever.

26. It’s always a good idea to find ways to improve yourself all the time. It’s especially good after a break up to help keep you moving forward.

27. Be supportive of them- it feels good and they know that you’re always in their corner- no matter what. It lets them trust you.

28. Continue talking to other people. It’s ok to even flirt a bit- you’re single right now and flirting gives you confidence. (It’s even better when the flirting is with your ex.)

29. Do not enter another relationship or sleep with other people.

30. Don’t say too much behind their back. They need to know that they can still trust you with their secrets even when things are rough. Still speak highly of them to friends and family- so they’ll be more supportive with the reunion.

31. Enjoy your time apart. Sometimes that’s why things ended. Enjoying yourself is important and not only will make you more appealing, but will help the relationship in the future.

32. If you were together for a very long time or married before you broke up then seek couples’ counsling.

Good luck!

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